she always was a big sack of s**t to me…she needs to lose weight..she got women thinking they thick when they just fat with zero curves..if you gonna be fat have some shape. She’s ridiculous and it baffles me why women look up to her.

what a loser…she is doing her job if she has a little nobody like yourself hating…there are so many women&men that have low self esteem because ppl like you have that mentality…instead of giving off insults like you do..advice to maybe get healthier would be a little bit more classy…which obviously that is a characteristic that you lack

you are very ignorant. Grow up!

Oh my god, another hater. Why can’t people just let others be. She said “big women” other people may use tha term “thick” but she actually uses tha words “big girls”. She is one of my favorite comedians and actresses cause she got tha talent to be versatile; she can play a serious role and then she can play a more playful role. And truth be told, is she was to go away I’d miss her ass and not just cause I’ma big girl too–she’s pretty fxckin strong to me mentally and emotionally. Much support for her here.

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I feel like she’s an inspiration and she helps women have confidence in themselves. All I ever took that she was trying to say is to love yourself and lose weight for your health not to achieve an image. I am very proud of her she’s making her self healthier and I am happy for her! So i feel what you /\ said is completely out of line

GOOD FOR YOU WIT YO BIG SEXI ASS! I LUV YOU BABI!

This sista is a embarassement to backwomen….SHE’S FAT..weighs too much…Thats not cute on any woman.
Not hating, but ALL you fat women thinking thats what men want…Not a REAL MAN who wants a Queen. Being overweight should be against the law. If she loves her big self, then why ALL FAT women yearn to lose weight? PLEEEAASE. STOP PRAISING FATNESS!!!!!

its funny how there is always someone who takes something positive and attempt to wreck it. but most important is some people actually want to respond to such foolishness. i am happy about mo’s goal to improve herself. and if someone feels that way about her, let them be, thats their right as a human. and you all should remember, negative people do and say negative things to get attention. let that a*****e be. if they feel that way. good for them. dont feed into that s**t. thats what they wanted.

I wish there was a picture attached because I wasn’t aware she’d lost a lot of weight. I hope she doesn’t end up looking Missy-esque, I loved big Missy but skinny Missy has a HUGE mouth and it makes her look strange to me. Obviously I wish her success especially for the health reasons.

can anyone tell me what the term/word man means?.. please! i get so sick of these so called men screamin about what a “real man” wants. when 90% if the so called men really does not know the true meaning of ” man”. look it up sometime, u would be shocked. by the way its not about money. or the superior being. or what u do for ur family. lol at this character talkin about a real man doesnt want a fat woman. so this fool spoke for every man in this entire world on that note. i thinks not. people make sure u say things that refer to u and not the rest of the world please.

TO “AJYANT1″, GO AND SUICIDE YOURSELF! IN CASE YOU HAVENT REALIZED! IT IS WHATS ONTHE INSIDE THAT COUNTS! BUT IT HELPS IF YOU ARE CUTE IN THE FACE THO!

I THINK THAT PEOPLE WHO CRITICIZE SOMEONE’S WEIGHT IS JUST AS WRONG AS BEING RACIST…IT IS JUST WRONG…MO’NIQUE IS NOT AN EMBARRASSMENT AT ALL…YES SHE MAY BE BIG BUT SO WHAT??? THESE DAYS, MORE AND MORE OF AMERICANS ARE OVERWEIGHT…IM SORRY AJYANT1 BUT A REAL MAN DOESN’T LOOK AT A WOMAN BECAUSE OF HER WEIGHT; HE WILL LOVE THE WOMAN BECAUSE OF HER PERSONALITY…WHAT’S ON THE INSIDE IS WHAT REALLY COUNTS…IT JUST SHOWS HOW SHALLOW YOU ARE…

her fat ass had to wait until her husband said something about it b4 she got the message,nigga plz.if you tip the scales at well over 200lbs and you dont play some type of sports then its time.and most ur retired ball players have a hard time with the weight they carry so what makes ur dumb ass feel you can carry it any better.and these fat ass rappers trying to be macho and fat at the same time,failing to realize its killing them.you dont have to look like a million dollars but you shouldnt look like a $1.50 either.the worst drug in the black community is food.

there’s nothing wrong with what she’s doing but I hope she’s not contridicting herself….remember when she said that “skinny women are evil”??

Honestly size shouldn’t matter as long as ur healthy.. if your fat and sloppy and dying from all these medical conditions as a result of being obese- thats your own damn fault.. just like monique said u can be big but be big and healthy. its jus about taking care of yourself

dey said biggie da greatest big rapper get da f**k outta here b BIG PUN ALL DA WAY n my man BIG L big n pac was nice but over rated srry straight ^ n about dis fat thing im pretty sure all dem fat rapper get more ass den any 1 commentin on dis lmao trust mone make da world go rround DON

Congrats Mo. You do the damn thang. For the stupid ass who wanted to say that you are an embrassment, the ni**a need to go jump off a bridge. He would be the main reason why BBW can’t advance because of what society thinks real women should be. But think about this these idea women you have your mind fix on getting will be the ones who (1) will dog your ass out for not doing what they want you to do. (2)They know and sometime think that they are beautiful, but the person they are on the inside is what truly affect the person they are on the outside. Big woman have it going on. The confidence that they have with themselves can never be taken away by some a*****e with an ego. Ajyant1 before you say someone is and embrassment look yourself in the mirror, You ain’t the s**t yourself. I’m a big girl and I deal with ni**gas like you everyday, but my s**t stays together. I call you a ni**ga because you are ignorant. Ignorance is something i can’t stand.

i didnt know she lost weight but it is good. she is and will always be beautiful. i commend her cause she wants the world to know that she will not be a size zero and she loves her body. let her be and stop hatin. she is not a embarrasment to anyone and not every guy wants a twig as a girlfriend or wife some guys want a big girl its not all about looks to everyone. she is one of my role models and i look up to her because i know im not a twig and my boyfriend loves me for who i am not for how skinny or fat i am. all big girls need to be proud of their bodies they dont have to look like twigs to be beautiful.

I am so proud of Mo’Nique. I weighed to many pounds and 3 years ago I decided to stop eating red meat and lost 35lbs. I wasn’t told that i was fat, i realized it when i was almost in a size 26. Keep up the good work BLACK SISTER!

Im glad she stopped trying to justify her unhealthy lifestyle and got real…Me personally, it was never about whether big girls were beautiful or not, beauty is on the individual, but it was always about being healthy..I’m glad she made this decision, its the best one she could have made for herself..

I am so proud of Mo’Nique. Mo’Nique, Queen Latifah, Jennifer Hudson and Tocarra Jones are all beautiful “volumptuous” women who opted to do it “big” the HEALTHY way :). I have lost 12lbs over the past month and plan to lose 25-30 more this summer!!! It is not about being this as much as it is about being healthy. I am happy for Mo’Nique…keep doin’ you. For the negative individuals (who obviously hate themselves) that have nothing productive to say…take that ish elsewhere!!!

I am ver glad she did this…because its not about being big or being skinny…it really is about being healthy…some skinny ppl arent healthy…but there is a problem when u r too big…personally anything over 200 is to big…and i would know because i struggled with weight issues myself…and im just getting back into shape… so watcing how much u eat and some of what u eat and exercising is a big part into being a step closer to being healthy.. noone is syain stop eating…but watch ur intake…

About time big is beautiful but in some cases it is unhealthy

I completely agree with what Monique is saying being heavier than everybody else is stressful, but to be unhealthy with it that is even worse, i started at 260 i am now 185, and i still look good in my 14′s

Cosigning with _A_. Preach Bro.

i dont know what it is bu this chick is a contradictor …..one minute she hates skinny chicks and the next shes tryna lose wait ….not sayin she cant but it doesnt make sense jus now shes gona be on some star jones s**t lmao

She said it was unhealthy, she likes being big, but not unhealthy for those of you who don’t get it.

this is for shoot4damoon you deed to stop hating on my girl Mo’Nique is real some people just cant seem to stop drinking that hater aide if you never walked in our shoes you will never understand neckbones you can buy from the store thickness you cant and yes im think and lovin it and im heathy so you go MO i love her

I must say that being big is beautiful but being unhealthy is just plan foolish. I myself have started going to the gym and working out to at least tone it up. I am eating a lot more healthier foods and feel great.

either way she looks like a damned fool.

nothing sexy, cute, or healthy about being as big as she is…it’s been her meal ticket (no pun intended), but so was chris farley’s and john candy’s…

I’m so tired of ignorant people. Monique is losing weight to be more healthy not to get skinny. She wants to still be a big girl but a healthy big girl. She’s not on some “Star Jones s**t” as it was previously stated. Star actually wanted to be skinny and looks a hot mess.

MoNique did not have a gastric bypass. If she did she would be wayyyyyy thinner than she is now. Besides she needed to lose weight to ensure her health. She has a husband and 2 small children to live for. That should motivation enough for weight. And she doesnt look skeletal, she looks curvier. Do your thang Mo!

Mo’nique is beautiful, smart sucessful and funny
she looks great weather she lost alil bit or not. I personally am glam that she is the one thick fulfigured woman in hollywood, who is not in a desperate attemp to loose weight (ie: star jones or kanye’s mom ..these are drastic & sad measures) we can’t or don’t all want to be skinny…I’m glad for Mo’nique, she is gorgeous & representing. lets talk bout some of these rap stars…wow

i started out as a skinny minnie but having kids cause me to gain weight a womans body goes through so much and en and real mean people are the reason that we get and stay fat but as long as ur health is good who the hell cares. im fulffy and i am still confident. do ya thang mo shake dem hata’s off

Being “big and healthy” is an oxymoron. Excess weight causes the heart to work harder and overtime is very damaging. I guess you can be “big and beautiful” in the now but our lifestyles will catch us with us one day, “fathertime” is undefeated.

Also… Mo’nique doesn’t “hate skinny women” in real life. She does have “skinny” friends and relatives that she says she loves. They’re JOKES that happened to have earned her a lot of money! If I could get paid like her by writing jokes about how my mama was a crack w***e (even though it’s a blatant lie) then I’d do it and so would most of you.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAT AND SEXY,SEXY CHUBBY,SEXY CHUNKY; YOU ARE JUST A FATSO. EAT HEALTHY;NO PORK,BEEF,CHICKEN,FRUIT WHICH IS FATTENING AS IT IS HIGH IN SUGAR AND WILL MAKE YOU A FATSO-IGNORE ME IF YOU WANT TO- AND GOTO THE GYM ALL AMERICANS SHOULD HAVE A GYM MEMBERSHIP EX-NAY THE BAR AND THE CLUB AND HOOK UP AT THE GYM. BLACK PEOPLE HAVE SPECIFIC NUTRITIONAL AND EXERCISE NEEDS. STOP THE FATNESS. FAT IS NOT COOL,SEXY,OR ANY WAY ACCEPTABLE. IN ANCIENT EGYPT THE CONCEPT OF BEAUTY WAS CENTERED ON GOOD HEALTH. THUS YOU BUY YOUR HAIR CHEMICALS IN THE HEALTH AND BEAUTY AISLE OF THE STORE WITH THE SOAP,DEODORANT,TOOTHPASTE AND TOOTHBRUSHES. BLACK PEOPLE WAKE UP.

This is for “Shoot4damoon” & “Ajyant1″, How possibly ignorant and self absorbedcan you be? You do not speak for a real man because real men have more class thanthatandmore maturity.Real men want a women who is best suited for them and that does not always comein a 0-4 size. Secondly, she is a great person who keeps it real and does let men and women like you dictate how she “should” look because at the end of the day you cant even do what she does. If you look in the mirror,you are not really want real women want. Nothing special you just ignorant nigga and I hate using that word,but it fits the bill. And last,I am 6ft even and weigh 190 and look great while doing it.See I may not be what most people think as overwieght or a big girl becauseI am so tall but I aint no size 4 either, curves and allbutI understand where they come from cause of people like you that i see all the time. By the way, my “real man” who is mature and athletic IT engineer loves me just the way I am and tells me everyday. He feels as though every woman is beutifull in there own right and any “realman” would never down play that in any form.

well, lets see, I’ma big girl, fat and doin what it do. I think people who are extremely overweight should maybe get someone to help them out or try to help themselves the best way they can for health reasons. Bein overly big is not healthy but nobody can tell anybody else how to live or take care of themselves. Its hard to lose weight and its even harder when yu have such ignorant and disrespectful lame ass people putting yu down and making yu feel worthless.I think she is doin whatz best for her and Im proud.Im big and somewhat healthy and I know what I need to do and others know what to do too. ALL BIG PEOPLE PLEASE KEEP YO HEAD UP TAKE CARE OF YOSELF DO WHAT YU DO AND DO IT WELL, ALL HATERS PLEASE GO LOOK IN THE MIRROR FIGURE OUT WHATZ WRONG WIT YO ASS AND GET ON HERE AND TALK ABOUT DAT S**T.. IM OUT

thick and fat r 2 different thangs. monique aint thick an therefore aint sexy. she still gonna b fat if she drops down 2 200. she might actually b a good lookin b***h if she was smaller. her jokes no matter how much money its made her (blame it on stupid ppl with nothin better 2 waste their cash on) ain funny and her only good role was mrs. parker. but countess vaughn is hella fyyyne. id look at her as fat. dont know if her laugh was fake on the show, but it was also sexy. try 2 b more like countess and u wont have a heart attack from bein so damn fat and ugly.

um i just wanna know why fat people get so much drama and stuff??? like seriously its not like i wake up like hmmm yes I would like to have really slow metabolism and Id like to be twice the size of a regular girl… wth??? and i wish people would realize THIN doesnt mean HEALTHY kus me and my sister eat the same thing every day…shes thin im fat…thats that… and actually i dont eat red meat among other things which makes me healthier than her!!! so wtf…ignorant ppl shut the hell up!

BIG PUN, WAS THE BIGGEST RAPPER OF ALL… BUT HE DIED AT THE AGE OF 28YRS FROM ALL THAT WEIGHT. THIS RAPPER NEEDS TO LOSE SOME WEIGHT BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE!!! THAT’S THE TRUTH….

well its sad to see so many negitive remarks on a woman who is Beautiful. I honestly believe if you dont like womething about yoruself then you have every right to change it so im happy for her that she realized that and has started making the changes she is happy with… but people who only think fat = ugly you need to go check out BODacious Magizine!!! im a happy beautiful woman of 260lbs… no joke and i love my body… but most of all i love myself…. so stop hating just becuase you have your own selfesteem issues that you cant get over and no… you dont have the right to trear someone else down for your own bennifit. and please stop saying your trying to help “us” by telling us your truth about weight!!! if you wanna help or understand us please just talk to us… not at us. i preay you all have a blessed day and take the time to think before you act!
Mallory

I have not seen Mo’Nique lately, but if she has lost weight, she will not be sexy anymore – BIG is beautiful. It is great she lost weight for health reasons, but losing weight is hard to do when you were born fat – 10 pounds, natural birth! Everyone must remember, God made all people in the size he wanted then to be, otherwise, everyone on this earth would be skinny. God doesn’t make mistakes. Skinny is not the real people image. Look at the skinny models – that is not real life. Models are dying every year because they are too skinny. Live your life to the fullest fat or skinny and don’t worry about heavy people – stop criticizing. It is their life, fat or skinny and they are the ones to say “I have to loose weight” “I need to gain weight”. Remember – “If you see a skinny b***h – bop her in her head”!!!!

So what if she had surgey whats the big deal and people cn los alot of weight by working out aswell but either way doesnt matter.. yea she could make alot of skinny jokes but realistically aint nuttin cute abt a woman that is over 200 pounds u cant be serious when u look in the mirror and say i look good at that kind of weight b 4 real.. U look more like greedy as hell thats what u see just plan out right greedy!!!!! but again who cares how she lost it she did it thats good enough

i love the big rappers but they need to lose some of the weight before they end up like big pun. rick ross used to be way smaller when he was in trinas video for “told yall” (i think thats the name of the song)

Colormesoft are you serious when you say “God doesn’t make mistakes. Skinny is not the real people image.”

Do you really believe that ancient humans were naturally fat?

Listen, when men & women were eating only natural foods and hunting/ farming for food, NOBODY was fat! We are fat today because we changed the diet and activity we were created for to unnatural substitutes!

I agree with colormesoft. No matter what size you are love yourself. I lost weight due to ridicule by others only to find out that at a size 8 i was more unhappy than I was at a size 18. Damn a diet! Like Monique said the fist three letters in diet are “DIE” lol I am happy with my big sexy self just as I am now!!!!

The older you get, the harder it is to carry around all that weight. I hope that she didn’t have that surgery, but I do applaud her decision to bring her weight down to a place where it’s more comfortable and sustainable for her. You go, girl, ’cause at any size, you are still livin’ large!

i luv moniqe and all but 262, yeah right. she was more like 300. but im glad she’s getting healthy.

no matter how cute you think big is…its dangerous…choose life before burgers, fries and shakes.

Do yo thang ma! its ok 2 b BIG we ju gotta b healthy wit it

i am a med/big woman and all i can say is god bless monique. what i love about her is her spirit of life..now far as losing weight if u are pretty big u should consider losing weight i myself can stand to lose 40 pounds and i will.i have never been this size and it’s un healthy..i look at beauty on how u carry yourself.but being too over weight is unhealthy so lose a few big ladies.nothing wrong with being big just tone it up and put the damn fries down not that serious to have..it’s not just about losing weight being too big can cause many other troubles..

IF SHES DOING IT FOR HEALTH REASONS I GIVE HER A THUMBS UP FOR GETTING HEALTHY, BEING A DIABETIC IM TRYING TO LOSE ENOUGH WEIGHT TO CONTROL MY BLOOD SUGAR BUT STAY MY SEXY SELF, BUT IF SHES DOING IT TO COMPETE WITH THEM SKINNY HOLLYWOOD CHICS THEN SHE GETS A THUMBS DOWN FOR NOT BEING HER BIG BEAUTIFULL SELF AND FOR THOSE WHO SAID THERE WERE NOT BIG PEOPLE IN ANCIENT TIMES THATS NOT TRUE THERE WERE A LOT OF BIG PEOPLE BACK THEN ESPECIALLY IF U WERE CONSIDERED WEALTHY THEY COULD AFFORD TO INDULGE WHERE OTHERS COULDN’T.

Being overweight is not cool. People just try to convince themselves that they like how the look and that they are okay with their weight. When in reality they are just too lazy too loose weight and they have no will power to change their diet. Every big girl I know who has said I like the way I look and I’m okay with my weight; when she decided to loose weight 20 lbs was never enought, they all wanted to be as small as possible once they saw that weight start to melt off. You feel better and healthier, you look better, have more energy and better sex when you are thin. I use the be thick so I know, I love being a skinny girl.

IF MONIQUE USED GASTRIC BYPASS, THEN SHE SHOULD GET HER MONEY BACK!!!
OR HAVE THAT DOCTOR LOSE HIS LICENSE!!!
SHE STILL LOOKS LIKE CHEWBACCA THE WOOKIE!!!

I DO NOT CARE WHAT ANY WOMAN SAYS, NO WOMAN WANTS TO BE FAT!!!
THEY CAN TALK THAT BS GARBAGE ABOUT THEY LOVE BEING A BBW, IN REALITY THEY WANT TO BE SMALL AND PETITE!!!

DID NOT MONIQUE BUILT HER EARLY STANDUP ON HOW SHE HATE SKINNY WOMEN!?!?!?
I BET SHE WANTS TO BE A JADA PINKETT OR A STACY DASH!!!

LETS GET REAL AND STOP LIVING IN THE LAND OF MAKE BELIEVE, THAT WAS ON MR. ROGERS!!!

DROP THOSE BURGERS AND RIBS AND EAT A SALAD!!!
GET ON AN EXCERSISE REGIMENT!!!
STAY AWAY FROM ALL YOU CAN EAT BUFFETS!!!

I REALLY DO NOT SEE MEN RUNNING TO WOMEN THAT LOOK LIKE CHEWBACCA THE WOOKIE AKA MONIQUE & JABBA THE HUTT AKA NOTORIOUS PRECIOUS AKA GABBY FROM PRECIOUS!!!

THAT IS GROSS!!!
BARF!!!

AND THAT PIC OF MONIQUE DANCING WITH HER TWO BIG CREW IS STRAIGHT UP NASTY!!! THAT PICTURE SHOULD BE BANNED!!!
YUCK!!!

AND I DO NOT CARE WHAT THE BIG GIRLS THINKS!!!
YOU SHOULD DO WHAT I POSTED ON THE FIRST SENTENCES!!!
GET OFF YOUR LAZY A$$ES!!!

I wonder what her comments are about skinny women being evil? I haven’t heard her say anything about that. I hope MO isn’t like Star Jones who hid the fact that she did have gastric bi pass surgery. That sure bombed for her. And a matter of fact, what is Star Jones doing now? The last I heard she had an operation or was sick.