You know waht that s&^% don’t make no sense how does a man with the means of paying child support not pay? 98% of men are deadbeats come on now it’s time to get it together we are in 2009!

Miss-Torri how can you say 98% of men are dead-beats what’s your source?
that sounds like a *windshield survey*, aka what you see as you drive down the street and take notes from your car.

MOST men want to do right, most men would love to be a part of their child’s life – but if it’s not on Mommas terms, he’s called a deadbeat?
some **bit.ches** don’t tell a man he’s the father, some ‘prefer’ a certain man over the one she got pregnant by.

I was told I should put my name on a child’s birth certificate because i am better father than the bio-logical dad – but – i refuse to do that because the brother who got her preg’ don’t even know he is the father.
she assume he’s no good bcoz he smoke weed and don’t have a j-o-b,i ask “why” would she lower herself to a no good man? but meanwhile I enjoy my time with this 1 yr old baby boy, teaching him, leading him and show him good examples, i taught him to pray b4 he eat, he bow his head hold his hand 2gether and say ‘ya ya ya boo da ah A MAY” hehe its funny but God know his heart. I taught him to say thank u (ta ta) and clasp his lil velcro shoes, he calls me dada, I met his momma online when she was 5 mos preg’ and i gv her $100 week to help out, IM not a trick’ I make enuf for me, and if i didn’t give her money i would waste it on non sense, but i really do hope his real father will come in soon so this baby will know both of us.

A man will be as good of a father as the baby’s momma allow him to be.