You need to go and tell him and stop keeping a secret because it will hurt you in the long run so be a lady and tell him.

You should tell him. If, it backfires then move to someone else. But. if you did in fact knew this why did you even bother?

i don’t think it should matter you weren’t with him at the time.

Go ahead and tell him b4 it blowz up in ur face later on durin da long run. Dat type of stuff will b in da back of a dudez head if u keep dat from dem.

I agree that telling him would be best. He’d rather know about it from you then from someone else, that might even turn the story around.

you should tell him to go into the relationship with trust and honesty, if he cant deal with it then he prob wasnt the guy for you. because if u dont tellhim and his boy does he will no longer repesct you and nothing you can really say will earn it back.

if it doesnt work out you can always sleep with his cousin instead… ( sarcasm )

lol@kountry…silly

s**t lol

u wait long enuff and he’ll end up tellin anyway, someone needs to inform him of how loose u are.

YES! TELL HIM, ITS BETTER TO FIND OUT FROM YOU THAN FROM THE STREETS! THE TRUTH IS ETERNAL!

all these men out here in the world and she’s messing with best friends. stupid w***es always addicted to drama

TELL HIM. BE UP FRONT

If u woman enough 2 sleep wit him b woman enough 2 tell him the truth..Then on top of that u r very triflin as a woman thats wat deter men from wanting & finding a gud women.He should make his sisters beat ya butt,then again Im just playing but U r a prime example of a woman with no respect 4 yourself..

TELL HIM HO!

You should tell him now rather than things get too deep and he finds out elsewhere or you tell him later and it ruins your relationship and both you and him are at a loss. There is nothing to lose by telling him now but later it will be if you lose him and your feelings have grown for him.

Good comments everyone.

Relationships should be based off of trust.

Might as well tell him. I hate when females do trifiling shyt like this.

In a way it would be helpful to tell the guy because u will be going into the relationship with a clean slate.. but then you have to think “if I tell him will be not be interested in me anymore” Makes ya think huh?

For all of the women who commented…If the tables were turned do you feel that you would be able to bear the fact of your man sleeping with one of your best friends years before he met you?…Also, how would you feel if you heard it from him before you heard it from your best friend?

Man…this chick a sucker tho, wordup. She need to tell him and she also needs to find somebody else. idk too many people that can handle they bestfriend havin carnal knowledge of their significant other. she need to get a relationship outta that circle. peace

Truth,Peace,HTP,

1st – Not dude’s best friend cause, MY FRIENDS, Golden Rule, once you have dated, married or whateva with that woman…off limits for LIFE.

Go ahead, tell him..he gonna laugh on your FACE…I would…hahahaa

You should tell him but me being a male and knowing how that would affect me,I think he might not sit too well with that.Some men do foul sh#t to their girls but it’s no suprise when a woman does it because females get a kicc out of doing these types of things whether they admit it or not.

if he a real nigga he gon fuk his boy up and then cut you back, me and my boys got a different rule. if you wanna sleep with any of my friends tell me first before it happens so I can cut her back if she says yes. if you let her cheat one time she gon play you for a sucka your whole life

you know what i was in that situation…i dated a man man when i was a teenager…when i was 30 i met up with his cuzin but i didnt know it was his cuzin…but it was cool…since the guy i dated in high school had moved on and gotten married…his cuzin told him that we were messing around even the dudes brother knew…everybody was cool about the whole situation…so just be honest…it may surprise you….

@2Znm
Great story. Things happen. You never know. It’s good to be honest.

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