the worst way to end it is by pushing her fat azz down a flight o stairs or better yet how bout pushing her down an emty elevator shaft then letting the elevator down on her silly azz.

The worst way is through a text message or email…So not manly or woman like.

I think sending a text it is the worst but the easy way to do it.

yea i agree with 502girl a text message is the worst because , u cant cuss their ass out the way u want 2 lol……….

on facebook lol

NO I THINK SHE WAS RIGHT IN SAYING THAT JUST DISAPPEARING IS THE WORST…AT LEAST WITH A TEXT YOU KNOW WHAT THE F IS GOING ON…IF YOU JUST STOP HEARING FROM THE PERSON YOU’RE LEFT WONDERING WHAT DID I DO WRONG? IS HE WITH ANOTHER GIRL? IS HE DEAD OR WHAT?
IT’S VERY INCONSIDERATE OF SOMEONES FEELINGS TO LEAVE THEM WORRYING LIKE THAT WITH NO CLOSURE
LOTS OF UNANSWERED QUESTIONS

lol… kennyd… im bawlin hollin right now…lol

im wit sexaddict20 end it on facebook..but look end it on facebook annd on your bday 2 wuld be worse on so many levels lol..think if it you wakin up u happy thinkin ima see my baby on bday get sum bday sex u kno yea!! u go on facebook and see tht person goes to your wall and says

“baby its over. i need time to myself and grow but ill always think of u and love u so much…but i really wont after this post soooo yea and dont call plz im wit my new gf/bf rite now dat wuld be so F**** rude…oh and happy BDAY SEE U AT THE PARTY 2NITE!!” dat wuld make it worse lol…your friends n fam wuld see it.. ur siblings and ur mama oh mannnn lol..dey post pics of them wit they new spouse and dey both givin u the finger lol..only way it be worse if it was ur best friend lol..only thing u culd do..load up the car..and u fill in the rest…

How the fukk is Weezy the best rapper alive??? Who made that stupid caption?

And, the worst way out of these was Biggie… Breakup by death.

kicking her out of your car on the highway in the middle of a blizzard.

My last girlfriend broke up with me via text message ON MY BIRTHDAY!!! I thought that was cold, but I laugh about it now.

the worst way to end a relationship is in front of the people that told yall that the s**t wasn’t gonna work out anyway.. EMBARASSING

I know a guy who breaks up with his girls right after sex. He rushes them out of the bed and dropkicks them out the door with their clothes and a warm washrag.

Anything that is not in person… Even if you have to write a letter hand it to them and come back… Do it. Anything that isn’t in person is BULL.

If ever someone can’t break up wit you face to face, then that person was probably being trifle-ing the whole time. Trifle-ing people are nothing but grown ass infants. So called adults who don’t ever want to be responsible adults and/or parents.

The worst way to end a relationship is violently or with any form of detriment. No matter what your partner has done always “take the lead in showing honor” to them. If you feel that the other person has done something that was so repulsive or unforgiving, pray for the direction to use the most appropriate words.

I disagree with some commentators, the relationship doesn’t always have to be ended in person; it is preferred, most often than not, but it is not necessarily the recommended way to go especially if there is bitterness and abusive tendencies. People end up getting their property vandalized and harmed physically and the sight of the other person just brings up feelings that would better be left underwraps.

Vengence has become the theme of so many broken relationships and sadly, that attitude has caused much hatred and distance in our community. By breaking up with class and clarity you dignify yourself and the other person. End the relationship constructively, not with destruction.

In my younger days I would just disappear.

By not showing up or calling to say it in person first and if I had to pick another one, I’d say a text message. These don’t allow closure.

I don’t know why, but no matter matter how much I try, I never can break up on a good note. With us still being cool with one another. It’s always bitterness and resentment and it don’t even be my fault. (*shrug*). I guess that’s why I’m glad to be living a single life. I’d rather let everyone else go thru the relationship issues. Better them than me.

i broke up with one ex on valentine’s day, and another one on an anniversary…

I Plan, Execute & Cut Off All Contact! In time I may run into that person & when do! I be nice because, there is no need to be mean/nasty, life always goes on better, when lesson(s) learned!

JUST BE HONEST AND TELL THEM ITS OVER-THEY WANT BELIEVE YOU OR THINK THAT YOU ARE LYING-UNTIL YOU LEAVE. DO NOT FIGHT JUST COME HOME OR GO OVER SIT DOWN AND SAY IT.

ONE MORE THING YOU KNOW THE FIGHT WILL COME LATER…WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU ARE NOT COMING BACK.

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Text message is definitely the worst way to end a relationship. It’s bi tch way of doing it almost worst than faking your own death.

The worst way is having a chick’s shyt packed up, and calling the police to escort her azz out your home.

Yea I did that.

I broke up with an -ex by making HER leave ME! I stopped laying the Chocolate Pole on her KNOWING that would be enough to do it, and it worked PERFECTLY! She had shown signs that she had the tendency to become a little ‘Psycho’ over LITTLE things TWICE recently and THAT made me realize that one day, she was either gonna KILL ME (in my sleep would be the ONLY way she could make THAT happen) or make ME have to O.J. Simpson/Nicole Brown her @$$ (or Chris Brown/Rihanna for the younger crowd)!! She called it off between us on Christmas Day 2008! I had to step outside to yell “YYYYEEESSS” while throwing my hands into the air in a victorious manner as if I had just kicked the winning field-goal!!! That was the ONLY break-up I’ve ever experienced that actually felt GOOD and was ‘WANTED’ by the one being broken up with (me)! lol Good Riddens, Basket-Case! ;-)

I AGREE, MY EX BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER ALMOST A YEAR OUTTA THE BLUE HE STR8 UP SAID “I DON’T WANT YOU ANYMORE” NO SIGNS OF ANYTHING…JUST STR8 LEFT ME WITHOUT EXPLANATION OR CAUSE…NO PHONE CALL, NO NOTHING JUST SAID HE DIDN’T WANT ME AND LEFT. IT HURT, BUT I PRAYED AND THE LORD HEALED ME….LOL BREAKING UP SUCKS. I’VE NEVER TREATED ANYONE LIKE THAT…DON’T SEE HOW PPL DO IT.

my boy was dumped VIA text message…I thought that was SOOOO cold…

I got dumped by E-mail no explanation whatsoever. I was like dang, but I was more concerned about getting my eyeglasses back that I had left in her dorm once I got those back I was like it’s cool see ya.

Yeah.. I had my last relationship dump me by text message. But that’s ok. What goes around surely comes around. Thank GOD that I Know GOD because otherwise, I would have made sure he got a Good Ole Fashioned Neighborhood butt whopping!!! Old Coward. LOL

SHIIIT… DAT AINT NOTHING… MY BABY MOMMA GOT HER INCOME TAXES AND THOUGHT SHE WAS DOIN IT LAST YEAR… SHE SPLIT LAST FEBRUARY AND IS NOW BROKE WITHOUT A JOB… BUT I TELLZ YA ONE THINGS…. THAT CHILD SUPPORT BETTA GO TO MY KID… OR ELSE IMMA “IKE” her azz…

The worst way to end a relationship is to place an ad in the paper let it run for a week and then let them read it,move to another area or state and then get a 50B took out on them to makesure he is not coming back-around you. I have never had to use that one but,if it came down to doing something like that-then thats how I would do it and he would have to piss me off to make me go to that level.(JMO)

I was dumped by a guy who stopped contacting me. He seemed to be really into me (and I was into him). We dated for a few months and he had some issues with his son, but asked me to be patient, which I was until he didn’t call me for over a week. After that week passed, I gave up and moved on. It was only after a month or so did he call me, leaving me a message saying that he knew he “messed up” and to call him. I called him back and ripped into his as s. I know I should not have (should have never called him back) but I was so infuriated that he called me after all this time. That was the real pi sser–to call me after dropping off the face of the earth. What was the damn point??

Anyway, he handled the situation poorly, but I moved onward and upward.

I say that the worse way is via text message,phone call or message, letter, unless it is a potential abusive situation where it’s just not safe to do it in person. If you cant look a person in the face and tell them that you are no longer interested like a real woman or man, you probably are too immature for a relationship anyway! It’s cowardly and it leaves a lasting negative impression of you ,whether you know it or not. It’s not always what you do ,but rather “how” you do it!Just disappearing, no call, etc is also tacky!

The worst way to end a relationship is to not say anything or clarify why it’s ending.

THE ABSOLUTE WORST WAY TO END A RELATIONSHIP IS TO LEAVE WITH UNRESOLVED ISSUES, THIS IS ANNOYING. TO ACT LIKE YOU REALLY REALLY DON’T GIVE A BLANKITY BLANK WHEN THEY “DUMP” YOU AND YOU DISAPPEAR FROM THEIR REALM WHERE THEY CAN’T FIND YOU AND FLAUNT THEIR NEW RELATIONSHIP IN YOUR FACE AND YEARS LATER THEY COME BACK AND APOLOGIZE FOR HURTING YOU THAT WAY AND YOU SAY LOOKING REALLY DUMB FOUNDED “OH YEAH, I DON’T REALLY REMEMBER WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED?” AND THEY GO RUNNING AWAY WITHOUT TELLING YOU WHAT THEY ARE EVEN APOLOGIZING FOR. ONE WAS TEN YEARS LATER AND ONE WAS 20 SOMETHING YEARS LATER. GO FIGURE IT! HMMMMMMMMMMM WHO WAS REALLY HURT? OH WELL. NOT TO MENTION THE BABY DADDY THAT I NEVER TOLD ABOUT THE BABY UNTIL 11 YEARS LATER AFTER TRYING TO GET RID OF HIM BY DOING ALL KINDS OF THINGS, CALLING HIM BY THE WRONG NAME REPEATEDLY, IGNORING HIM WHILE TALKING TO OTHER GUYS ABOUT ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, BEING SEEN WITH ANOTHER GUY ON HIS ROUTE TO WORK THEN HIM APOLOGIZING FOR LEAVING ME WITH A BABY. WHO LEFT WHO? THIS WAS MY FEEBLE-MINDED ATTEMPT TO BE DRAMA FREE. GO FIGURE IT!

ive been dumped by either texts or emails which does upset u and u think dang u couldnt at least came over or meet me somewhere face to face not only it pisses u off but u realize just how much respect that person had for u

With the sound of gun fire.

Well ..had to be when I met some one on another network. We talked for a month then they relocated from another state to be with me . But after 2 months they met someone else on another network and moved to be with them .. They ended up breaking up with me on Facebook and not in person ..that was the worse for me

Ending it bitter is the worst way to do it.

My worst break up was in a text message while I was buying her some new shoes..I still think anybody using a txt message to break up with anybody is a lame.

I think that the worst way to break-up with someone is when there’s a child/children invovled; because there’s so many emotions invovled in the decision making that it leaves both parties ignorant to the big picture. The kids!

@ bencildornay-Right, or with a knife! lol

The worst way is to think that you’re both in love, plans have been made and then…..suddenly there are things that have to be taken care of and put to rest before yall can continue (on his end). Then Being made to believe that “it” will continue and the next thing you know, he’s with somebody else, right in yo face……..weeks later. Gets married to her and then wants to start f***kn you again…..but he’s happily married??!! LOL!!

the worst way…..this is still going on in my life today!
MARRIED A MAN 7 YEARS AGO….BEEN WITH HIM FOR A TOTAL OF 16 YEARS…HE GOT LOCKED UP..STAYED IN FOR 13…FOUGHT AND STRUGGLED AND LIVED THROUGH THE HELL ONLY TO HAVE HIM COME HOME IN 2006 THEN IN 2007 HAVE A BABY BY HIM THAT WAS BORN STILL AT 39 WEEKS. HE STARTED CHEATING OUT THE GATE. AFTER THE BABY WAS BORN STILL THE B***H CAME TO THE HOSPITAL TO GIVE LOVE. FOR THE LAST THREE YEARS I HAVE BEEN TREATED LIKE THE HOE IN THE STREET AND THE OTHERS HAVE BEEN TREATED LIKE QUEENS. WE LIVED IN DIDFFERENT STATES UNTIL 8 MOS AGO. HE IS NOW LIVING 2 HOURS AWAY WITH ANOTHER WOMAN…HAVENT SPOKE TO HIM SINCE OCTOBER.
TELL ME IS SILENCE THE BEST WAY?

The worst way to end A Relationship is when He just simpy stops talking to you..the 2 of you might have a real ssmall arguement that could have been resolved or you could not have dont anything that you could see that sparks this silent treatment but all of a sudden you look around and he is just soo indifferent,,and not the same and there’s no..(hey im sorry but I wanna break up talk) there’s no nada! he just stops calling and coming around and treating you the same,,and you just have to figure it out..its like SOME Men are cowards and dont wanna have to deal with actually saying the words so they say nothing at all..its cold,cowardly,immature and disrespectful

the last relationship i had was the worst. I `ve been holding him down for the last 4 years and he goes to jail. He wrote me letters telling me how much he had some much respect for me for doing what i had to do for our kids and me. and how he couldn`t wait to come home to me and the kids. but as soon as he went to a halfway house he started taking some college coures and met this white hoe. when i found the number and called she said oh no we are just friends,etc. but as soon as he came home and found out i was talking to her he told me it was over.wtf!!! and decieded he wanted to have her instead of us. he took me to court for custody and called me untfit and a drug addict. i don`t even use drugs. called children in youth 3 times. let`s the white girl disrepect me call me and harrass me plays on my phone had to get my number changed. mind u he hasn`t seen the kids since oct.i have never went through anything like this and hope i never will again . it makes you nit wanna even bother with anyone else. i`m such a bad mother yet still i`m living on my own with my kids going to college and own all my s**t. not taking my man to stay with my family and have no job. so u tell me who is doing better?

sometimes you just have to disappear. I mean, how many ways can you tell someone it isn’t working and they still keep coming. It might be rude, but it works. Just up and disappear

My last relationship, I just went silent on her. Didn’t call, didn’t email until she just got the message.

the best way is to just say it’s over and mean it. whether in person, email, phone etc doesn’t matter. iv broken up w/ guys over the phone b/c it’s the quickest way. most breakups happen after things have gone sour anyway. there’s nothing to talk about, just get it over with

Well for me, it was funny and sad at the same time. She came to my house on Sunday, didn’t say anything. At the same time she was telling me how she thought she was pregnant. If she was I would have handled it but other wise she was probably just scared. Monday morning on my way to a job I hated, she told me via text message that she was in the clear cause her time of month had come around and she was seeing someone else. That right thurrrrrrrrrrrrrr lol yeah that bit but it’s a lesson learned

If was the day before our wedding and I found out we were pregnant. He roughed me up, cancelled the wedding the morning of and demanded an abortion for the next 2 months. Soap opera…. No my real life. Rico Antoine Harris! Beware! :(….

She gave me a TickleMe Plant and told me it likes affection more then me!
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THE WORST WAY TO LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP TAKE THE MONEY ,BURN HIS CLOTHERS
AND TELL HIM TO GO TO HELL WITH HIS “DUMB ASS!!!!!!!!!!”

Well, I agree with many of you. If not almost all of you. With this touchy subject. Everybody has had it someway or another. However, my opinion would have to be the worse break up. Is when he changes his number w/out you knowing it only when you call it. And yet, to realize that he needed to give it to you. He decides to text you 2 weeks later from the new number claiming that’s it not him. Then you having to find out that it really is. And then him setting up a kid to do his dirty work saying it’s not his number when you’ve found out through the phone company that it is his number! Is it even a break up. Because he still never said you all have broken up officially! Scoop this one. I think it’s the best one of them all! Holla back and keep ya head up coz’ only the strong survive.

The worst way to end a relationships is to STAY IN IT when you should have left years ago. It’s mentally taxing to prolong agony when that relationships been dead years ago.

Well for me was when you see the signs.when your mate tries to explain to there friends who you are.instead of saying this is my girl or guy.I think when your grown and you want to end it you should sit down and talk about it and
Or just say f**k it stack ur paper up and if you all stay toghther while the other person is gone to work get ur stuff and bounce turn your phone off and throw up the deuce sign.lol

@ Willy_Brown-> Damn! I feel for ya on that one my Man! I can definitely relate. :-(

@SpicyTN42-> YOU should be ASHAMED!! That “Waiting to Exhale” $#!T is UNNECESSARY!! Sad.. So very sad.. SMH [>:-(

to me the worst way to end a relationship (esp when you think you in love)is just one day cut off all communications(silent treatment) with no closure and hopefully they will get the wake up call(logical message)… that you not messing with their ass nomore. *Note: Does not work well on psychopaths or stalkers.

I dated this guy for an brief moment we went on like 3 dates…he told me how beautiful I was he really like me and blah blah blah…After our third date he stopped calling me texting, didn’t hear from him until a whole year later….he called me out the blue saying ohh i had to clear my head for a minute but i’ve missed u….so stupid me wanted to start things over so we went out to eat and in the middle of our dinner he told me that he’s seeing three other women that he’s really starting to have feelings for….soooo tha was when I was through so I told him to lose my number

I think the best way to break up with someone is to just sit them down and talk face to face, let them know how you feel. Sure its hard to do because you probably don’t want to hurt the other person but unfortunately it comes along with the situation. One of the worst ways to break up is to just stop all communication all together with the person. To me that is a sign that you are very immature if you cant woman or man up to how you feel..you would just be running away…

The worst way is like some of the grossly immature people here have spoken.

Usually, how bad a relationship ends depends on how it starts. If both partners did not ask the right questions before moving from the casual phase to the serious phase of the relationship, then it is likely one of them is more “serious” than the other. When one assumes that the relationship is serious while the other does not, then the other person is not being honest about their true feelings, which leads to them using passive, indirect means to end the relationship (thus, texts, voicemails, tweets, etc…)

I REALLY DONT KNOW THE BEST WAY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE BUT MY EX JUST STOP TALKING TO ME AND WHEN I DID FINALLY TALK TO HIM AGAIN HE TOLD ME IT WAS BECAUSE I MOVE IM JUST REALLY HAPPY HE DID STOP TALKING TO ME BECAUSE IT REALLY SHOWED ME WHAT KIND OF PERSON HE REALLY WAS

SIMPLE SIT THEM DOWN A EXSPLAIN D@ DIF IN D@ 2 of yall then clearify dat u dnt want them to change real easy
RC

when it’s over! and if one’s fall out of love.it the end of a relationship, time to move on!

KILL EM THAT’S THE BEST WAY TO END THE RELATIONSHIP AND MAKE SURE YOU’LL NEVER RECONCILE IF THE OTHER PERSON IS OUT OF THE PICTURE AND I MEAN FOREVER!

LOL…..
IT WAS A JOKE BEFORE I GET ANN THIS HATE MAIL IN MY INBOX

*ALL
NOT ANN

Shouting FUUUUUUUUUUUUQQQQQQ YOU IN THE PHONE REALLY LOUD AND HANGING UP… at least i think thats the worst way lol idk

The worst way to break up with someone is to just stop coming around – no explanation. It’s immature to say the least. It happened to me. I found out when I was over a mutual friend’s house and someone knocked on the door looking for him. The person that answered the door told him to try Abbie’s. That he had moved in with her the previous week. He had moved on but didn’ bother to share it with me.

But then when I started seeing another guy, my ex had the nerve to call me and read me the riot act because he had seen us together. Now mind you, this was a man that left without so much as a goodbye and had moved in with the woman and he was calling me out because I had a new boyfriend. He is damn lucky I didn’t know where she lived because I would have shown up at her door and gone postal on his ass.