What Is The Worst Way To End A Relationship?
By Jerry Barrow, Senior Editor
February 4, 2010 12:00 pm
Are you looking for an exit before Valentine’s Day?
There is no good way to end a relationship but some bad ways are really bad! Since her new CD Pink Elephant deals with so many aspects of relationships we asked singer N’dambi to name some of the worst ways to break-up with someone.
What do you think? Is a phone call sufficient? Is breaking up via text the ultimate disrespect? Let us know!
N’Dambi On Bad Break-Ups from The Urban Daily on Vimeo.




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aoleon65
2-9-2010 12:23 pm
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BrotherJohnOfDallas
2-9-2010 11:29 am
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2-6-2010 12:43 pm
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Willy_Brown
2-6-2010 10:50 am
« Previous 1 2 3I REALLY DONT KNOW THE BEST WAY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE BUT MY EX JUST STOP TALKING TO ME AND WHEN I DID FINALLY TALK TO HIM AGAIN HE TOLD ME IT WAS BECAUSE I MOVE IM JUST REALLY HAPPY HE DID STOP TALKING TO ME BECAUSE IT REALLY SHOWED ME WHAT KIND OF PERSON HE REALLY WAS
Usually, how bad a relationship ends depends on how it starts. If both partners did not ask the right questions before moving from the casual phase to the serious phase of the relationship, then it is likely one of them is more “serious” than the other. When one assumes that the relationship is serious while the other does not, then the other person is not being honest about their true feelings, which leads to them using passive, indirect means to end the relationship (thus, texts, voicemails, tweets, etc…)
The worst way is like some of the grossly immature people here have spoken.
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I think the best way to break up with someone is to just sit them down and talk face to face, let them know how you feel. Sure its hard to do because you probably don’t want to hurt the other person but unfortunately it comes along with the situation. One of the worst ways to break up is to just stop all communication all together with the person. To me that is a sign that you are very immature if you cant woman or man up to how you feel..you would just be running away…
I dated this guy for an brief moment we went on like 3 dates…he told me how beautiful I was he really like me and blah blah blah…After our third date he stopped calling me texting, didn’t hear from him until a whole year later….he called me out the blue saying ohh i had to clear my head for a minute but i’ve missed u….so stupid me wanted to start things over so we went out to eat and in the middle of our dinner he told me that he’s seeing three other women that he’s really starting to have feelings for….soooo tha was when I was through so I told him to lose my number
to me the worst way to end a relationship (esp when you think you in love)is just one day cut off all communications(silent treatment) with no closure and hopefully they will get the wake up call(logical message)… that you not messing with their ass nomore. *Note: Does not work well on psychopaths or stalkers.
@ Willy_Brown-> Damn! I feel for ya on that one my Man! I can definitely relate.
@SpicyTN42-> YOU should be ASHAMED!! That “Waiting to Exhale” $#!T is UNNECESSARY!! Sad.. So very sad.. SMH [>:-(
Well for me was when you see the signs.when your mate tries to explain to there friends who you are.instead of saying this is my girl or guy.I think when your grown and you want to end it you should sit down and talk about it and
Or just say f**k it stack ur paper up and if you all stay toghther while the other person is gone to work get ur stuff and bounce turn your phone off and throw up the deuce sign.lol
The worst way to end a relationships is to STAY IN IT when you should have left years ago. It’s mentally taxing to prolong agony when that relationships been dead years ago.
Well, I agree with many of you. If not almost all of you. With this touchy subject. Everybody has had it someway or another. However, my opinion would have to be the worse break up. Is when he changes his number w/out you knowing it only when you call it. And yet, to realize that he needed to give it to you. He decides to text you 2 weeks later from the new number claiming that’s it not him. Then you having to find out that it really is. And then him setting up a kid to do his dirty work saying it’s not his number when you’ve found out through the phone company that it is his number! Is it even a break up. Because he still never said you all have broken up officially! Scoop this one. I think it’s the best one of them all! Holla back and keep ya head up coz’ only the strong survive.
THE WORST WAY TO LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP TAKE THE MONEY ,BURN HIS CLOTHERS
AND TELL HIM TO GO TO HELL WITH HIS “DUMB ASS!!!!!!!!!!”
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If was the day before our wedding and I found out we were pregnant. He roughed me up, cancelled the wedding the morning of and demanded an abortion for the next 2 months. Soap opera…. No my real life. Rico Antoine Harris! Beware!
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Well for me, it was funny and sad at the same time. She came to my house on Sunday, didn’t say anything. At the same time she was telling me how she thought she was pregnant. If she was I would have handled it but other wise she was probably just scared. Monday morning on my way to a job I hated, she told me via text message that she was in the clear cause her time of month had come around and she was seeing someone else. That right thurrrrrrrrrrrrrr lol yeah that bit but it’s a lesson learned