Dear Black Man,
Why is it so hard for a successful black woman to find a successful black man, who is not threatened by her success?
-Tina
The Black Man:
Hi Tina,
I feel that if a successful black woman finds and successful black man,
Nine times out of ten that man is not going to feel threatened by her success. Most people feel a loss of power or threatened when they don’t have something the other person has.
They key is to find someone who is on totally on your level. Success is not always measured by finance or fame. You have to be on the same page and compatible on you what you want in your lives. Dating someone that is in the same financial bracket is not the solution of finding true love. A lot people put that first and that is a big mistake. It may seem great at first but if you are not aligned in other parts of your lives, it can become an issue later on in your relationship.
It is not only about the other person but it is also about you being clear on who you are and what you want. Sometimes you have to go through experiences and relationships to get clear on that. It may take time to find that person but when you do, you will feel it was well worth the wait.
I hope this helps.
TBM
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