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A trackstar has just gotten in trouble for using performance  male enhancement drugs, what should this woman’s boyfriend do?

Dear Blackman,

I am 41 years old and my boyfriend of five years is 54. He suffers from erectile dysfunction due to his type two diabetes. He doesn’t even try to have sex with me anymore and I want to have sex. My sex drive is extremely high and I don’t want to cheat on him. I am so tired of using my vibrator and having oral sex. What should I do?

-Backed Up

The Black Man:

Hi Backed Up,

It is a tough situation that you are in and it is very commendable of you to persevere considering the circumstance at hand. I would suggest that the two of you go to a physician and discuss this issue. There may be a solution. There are so many products on the market now that help with fixing the issue of erectile dysfunction. However, you need to check with a physician to make sure that there would be no side effects, especially with him having type two diabetes. You may also want to go to a holistic doctor to get an opinion as well.

Make sure to be completely open and honest about your feelings in regards to this because you don’t want to grow resentful towards him by trying to hide your emotions.

Open communication is the best way to approach and get through this situation.

I wish you the best of luck.

TBM

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