Women on this site should have sex with me and then reply to this thread with the answer

I ain’t going to even lie…it depends on who it is, what mood I’m in and what is going on at the time to decipher how much energy I’m going to put into it.

Are you kiddin? Black women are complaining, lazy SLOTHS in bed, and black MEN are the “hardest workers in show business” so to speak. http://tinyurl.com/2dntny That is why black men get chased by all other races of women. They are known for their animalistic libido in the bed. By contrast, black women are not nearly as sought after by other races. Some other races of men find black women to be too controlling and conceited and want nothing to do with them.

Im riding solo..

Gastro_man shut the heck up lol. You went off on other subjects, this is a black site but I don’t think race was in the topic.

Well thats easy. If its Missionary = men is doing most of the work. If its Riding = women is doing the most work. Doggy = men. Fellatio = women Cunninlingus = men. In general men do most of the work. But in Porn, women do most of the work Ive noticed lots of riding. All this talk is making me hot.

Doggy…Fellatio-BOINNNNGGGGGG!

SQUIRRRRTTTTTT!

Squirrrrt???!! What’s cquirting?????

My FIVE-ALIVE J-U-I-C-E B-O-X !!!!!!!!

Whats boinging???????

TMI on YOUR part, you F-R-E-A-K……

the boinnnng part is the Vlassic Pickle……

I agree with TBM, what kinda question is that? Rhetorical, don’t you think? And btw, BeautifulSun does NOT mind putting in work, pregnant and all ;)

BeautifulSun1, with a H-O-T-T-I-E picture like yours, wish you had a TWIN that lives HERE in Ohio ;)…..

(qq’n @ the pregnant nookie) ahhhhhhh! *reminisce*.. it’s like eating a late night sammich and dont have to clean the crumbs out the bed..

I hate it when a woman tries to fuk back in missionary… Ladies… when you’re in missionary don’t try to be the one doin’ the fukin’… just lay there with your legs up (or rapped around me) and just rock with me… you’ll get your chance to do the fukin’ when you’re on top.

Also… when you’re on top ladies please do be careful… most of you get carried away, and act like you’re trying to tare the dic.k off… and some of you almost do.

When you c.umm, your va.gina tightens up and traps our pe.nis inside there, when that happens if you start swirling your hips (you hips are powerful) it can break the pe.nis.

So… I know you’re c**.ing, but please “do” be gentle… you gotta’ realize I’m trapped in there, and can’t move.

This is cool… women are actually talking openly about dic.ks… this has never happened before in all of history… you ladies find the dic.k interesting Hugh? Well… we like yall’s VJ’s too… there is nothing “ANYWHERE” that feels like a VJ does… not your mouth, not your azzhole, only puss.y feels like a puss.y.

When I’m c.uming I start sweating, when she’s c.uming she starts to sweat too… so BOTH put out the same amount of work when it’s their tune to c.umm.

Damn… now I want some puss.y!

Laticia39… I’d do you in a heartbeat.

‘ALL YALL NASTY’. AND GASTRO MAN SHUT UP YOU CAME OUT OF BLACK WOMAN .

I say the women do (lmao…Okay it should be mutual when it comes to this question as long as you are not f**king with a rider because if you are a good one a man should have to pry you off of him. What kind of question is this knowing damn well each sex is going to agree with themselves

how did i know peaches and herb wouldnt be to far away from this forum…..no1 cares about ur droopy DUSTY BALLS AND disintegrated t**t…ugh!

I’ll get the job done baby– I work.

Door_Gunner, How you gone ‘do’ Leticia39 in a heartbeat? Her picture is BEYONCE! Not her…What you gone do? Fck the shyt out of a magazine photo? silly negroes!

But I agree with msveevee…Who’s workin the most depends on the mood I’m in AND what he wants me to do…

To my brothers…If the woman only wants to do missionary with you, it’s prob because she really dont feel like having sex at that moment.
Now to answer the question, yes men work harder in bed then women!!! Ladies, ya’ll have a hole that can be penetrated 36 hours a day (lol) as long as it stays lubed up. We (men) have a “pole” that only stays up as long as blood is rushing through it. So it’s not as easy for us to be able to go as long as ya’ll would like for us to it’s just not gonna happen.

well naturally id say men do most of the work…. the most common position i think is missionary and though some women might actually do soomething in that position i havent met any of those, and even when the girl is on top i think most men are doing something as well(i kno i do)… and then alot of chicks dont work there hips in doggystyle either,lol, maybe ive just had bad luck but the women ive been with are lazy.

Men, ya’ll most likley are not/ will not impress the woman ya’ll knock off this weekend with the size of your “ego” or how long you last because most likley she’s had better and that didnt keep her with that mandingo…. So brothers, get ya’ll nut while you can and she better get hers!!!

this topic is a waste of my time….i have met many a chics before who dont wanna get on top and ride…..lazy azzes….as long as i know myself am always on top most of da ride and even if am on bottom am always thrustin upwards meeting her halfway if not most of the way while she ontop cringin tryna escape da thrust and me pulling her azz down by her shoulders onto the rod of destruction….

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@jazzwatch thank you lol
LMAO MISTAMANN09 and CaliFemme23
@Nature1111, that’s SOOO not true! There are some brothas out there that can go all night. Don’t fill nobody’s head up with nonsense now…

“ya’ll have a hole that can be penetrated 36 hours a day”

GENAE’ SAYS…maaaan if u find a chick that can be penetrated 36hrs out of the day..U SHOULD MARRY HER…thats AMAZEMENT….for the longest ive been thinking there was only 24hrs in a day…pfft, im fallin off!

I don’t know what kind of lazy chicks y’all runnin into…OR maybe you brothers don’t really appeal to the chicks you’re going after for sex….Hmmmmm

If a woman REALLY wants that man, trust, she WILL get it in for him!

@neva1, Better yet, if these men are finding women that can be penetrated for 36 hrs in a day…Imma need these brothers to stop messin with them white girls! Only a white chick could find an additional 12 hrs to leave her legs open….IJS

“Only a white chick could find an additional 12 hrs to leave her legs open….IJS” LMa(COMPLETELY)O BWAHAHAHAHA!!!!
BORING SEX IS FOR LAMES…IM TRYNA HAVE MY OWN “KINKY CHRONICLES” only with a deserving man ;) PEACHES IN HERB GET’N IT IN..THROUGH (ONE-LINERS) AND ISH…..THAT TAKES SKILL

It all depends…WHO`S BIRTHDAY IS IT? LMAO!!!

everyone in here gonna make it seem like they superman or superwoman. different things for different people. if u on ur s**t u will know when its time to put in work

Men always do more than any woman who doesn’t fuk like women in porn. I’m not talking about crazy gaping stuff, I’m talking about the energy and moves women pull off, in porn. Many women don’t want you to see porn, because then you’ll compare their wack moves and know she’s lame, in bed. So men have the pressure to be good, on top of that, because most idiot guys will think any puzzy is good because he came. Idiots.
Also, most women today can’t fuk at all. The vibrator generation created a group of women who can’t fuk a human back, because she’s only good at putting an inanimate, gizmo in and out of her, and NOT used to moving like she should, on a real pen1s. So you get a dead fish chick with terrible hip movements and wack puzzy.

AMANTE36, EXACTLY! There shouldn’t be a ‘blame game’ going on with this topic…

@kesha-doggz, Maybe it’s just YOU attracting lame, wack, lazy chicks….MESSAGE!
;-)

@odoggz I agree….

Digg, i KNEW i could count on you to get my panties wet! ;-)

*muah*

@SimplyComplex_87 i would love the honor of seeing it wet in person…:)

@CaliFemme23
that’s new… you can attract women with lame puzzy skills. Interesting. LOL If you mean that I like “good girls”, and they’re lame, that’s messed up of you to say. To your point though, ghetto broads do have that bomb ass puzzy, yourself excluded.

Well, i love it any and every position, especially on top. I love riding my man and looking into his eyes while i ride his dick. I don’t think all women are lazy because none of you men have slept with all of them. It’s just the ones that your f**king, so u mite need to still look for that freak. Ladies, I don’t know about you, but i work my ass off in the sheets or on top of them.Damm, I’m drenched not only in his seat but mines as well. If i can’t give my best performance, i don’t even bother in having it….

THE truth is this who what to have sex with some one who cant nut as soon as she does. u will never make a baby!!!! I have a job and other important this to do. Please get off me. Who want to have sex with some one all night long right u men belive that stupid ass s**t if u want.

If the pu __y good u going to nut quick or if u hold back u going to exploded so i can say I do all the work.

youtube.com/grammb

Oh boy here we go again, with the stupid topics! The answer will differ obviously depending on who you ask. Not many men or women will admit to being a half azzed or downright wack lover anyway. For some people it will always be about “what the other person didn’t do”. You get from the situation what you put into it, and if your not getting what you need or want than maybe you should open your mouth and express that. Stop expecting the other person to read your mind. If your grown enough to have sex, be grown enough to communicate. Any person can put in work, from any position if they throw it back, as well as they take it. If your a woman who enjoys feeling control or dominant than cowgirl riding on top style might be your favorite position.If your a man who enjoys being dominant in bed (at any given moment) than you might prefer doggy or missionary! Many men and woman alike enjoy many different positions.Don’t view it as a gender thing, but rather an independent experience that you may have had with one or more people that you slept with.
Take the time to get to know your partners body and you will learn what turns them on most!
P.S. A woman choosing to use a sex toy/vibrator etc does not necessarily mean that she is or will be a lazy lover! Maybe the man that she was with didn’t stroke it good enough, ya know she was not totally satisfied after sex with that person, and needs to finish the job,lol… OR perhaps she’s not involved with anyone sexually at time (celibacy) and just wants to get her jollies off alone (safely&quickly), OR maybe she just enjoys using sex toys occasionally to get off! That does not mean that she won’t or can’t be a good , responsive, and active partner in bed.

no doubt califemme23

Meanwhile…back at the Sex Expo “Who can suck the hardest competition”

I mean this article sucks…my bad

Okay…And this is all the men between the age of 29-39.

Ya’ll cant tell me that that in the mid and late 90′s that black women didnt used to go hard in the bed with sex…..Now a question to the women. WHAT THE HELL HAPPEN WITH YA’LL???

@KaiKai7 I feel you on the whole taking time to getting to know that person thing. Sex is so much better if it’s with someone that you actually really like and know.

Door_Gunner – Let’s go daddy! And my names Leticia not Laticia.

If I can only get a woman to RIDE the Vlassic, or do a lap dance then ride me like that, and I’ll be SASSISFIED…..

Leticia is a F-R-E-A-K, talking about her squirting…..I knew her PORPOISE in her reply ;)-BOINNNNGGG!

SimplyComplex_87 and BeautifulSin1 I bet you both HOTTIES rock in a thong and can dance like those ladies did in Uncut-BOINNNG!

jazzwatch is a H-O-R-N-Y Man

Leticia, no I’m not (TOOOOOT)…..you’re the one talking about squirting, not meeeeeeee……

This is not even a question most positions are designed for men to do the work. Even if women wanna sit here and pretend, logic can’t be argued. My god women always wanna fight tooth and nail for womanhood.

I agree panero men do all the work – WELL that is how it is with me. I just lay there and let daddy do magic on me.

jazzwatch you are talking about boinging vlassic pickles riding lap dances … so you’re a freak too hahahhahahahaha but aint nuthin wrong wit dat we scorpios.

Letricia how did you KNOW I was a Scorpio????? Anyway us freaks are UNIQUE ;)……

you told me before silly!!!!!!!!!!! back in august!!!!! in another articles i asked u where did u get da word vlassic pickle from?

our bdays coming up soon!!!!!!!!! u better wish me….

OHHHH….TMI on MY part…….

well…. lol vlassic pickle?? u made it up??

THE SECOND COMING OF JESUS CHRIST HAS ARRIVED…..STAY TUNED!!!!

You bet your underwear….. I made it up form Krogers ,aile 6 next to the gherkins, horse radish and paparika…….

u didnt leave a comment on da mashonda article

oh yeahhhhhhhhh someone told me what sms was!!! finally!! sadomasochism, and what these artist will do to sell music.

Leticia, rather stick to the Vlassics, BOINNNNGS and the lap dances….

Read the Ocho cico comment, and don’t blush…..

ok F-L-I-R-T

i DID READ IT. and why would i blush? im not a buttaface!!! lol BUT I AM HAPPY U USED DA NAME BEYONCE FOR UR HOTTIE LIST. :)

Beyonce is O.k. prefer Jhud instead, and blushers are attractive to me……..

ok my ass! jhud is a beaver lookin woman…shes a buttaface. oh really but my shyness turns off a lot of men….

but my craziness turns off men more lmaoooooooooo IM TRI-POLAR WHAT CAN I SAY

I GOT MINI LETICIA’S RUNNING ALL OVER THIS SITE

I saw another Letica name with a FUNNY picure, but she spell hers Letiicia on hers…..WOOWWWWWWWWWW…….Jhud is NOT unattractive, lus she lost a lot of weight and her booty isn’t bad either-BOINNNNG!

There is no question to that. the question should if all who does the most farting in bed?

i agree with Paneiro1.

Digg, any day now…

It’s the man… We have to maintain an erection and do ALOT of hip and ass pumpin, like we on the dancefloor or some shyt.

I feel the Black Man on this one–it depends on what’s being done in the bedroom by WHOM. I tend to go by the saying “adults play through sex”… Why not simply be “sexual kids” and play in such a manner that the woman and I BOTH and EACH enjoy the “sexual games”? What I mean by “sexual games” are whatever sexual positions the woman and I would like to try, whatever places the woman and I would like to try, and whatever TIMES the woman and I would like to play… The ONLY rule on the “sexual playground” is as stated above–she and I BOTH and EACH enjoy… But, that’s in MY “sexual playground”…

@ Stan_Vinyl, interesting point… A LOT of Women, between the lines, seem to DEMAND a man to maintain his erection while just lying there and, at the least, PRETENDING to “be in it”… A “play” of such women to sexually use the man via the stereotype mentioned to Paneiro1 below? If so, SAAAAAAAD…

@ Paneiro1, you are so right–”…most positions are designed for men to do the work”. I think this stems from the stereotype that, out of the man and woman, the MAN always wants sex more. I LOVE to keep things fair, so I REALLY admire a woman who ISN’T afraid to put in work, too. Even a bit of “overtime”, for those who demand the same from a man… LOL… To such “overtime women”, don’t be mad if I be masterbating afterward because you refused to “clock ‘overtime’” yourself… LOL… Don’t start none, won’t be none… LOL…

@ jazzwatch, as a fellow ADMIRER of the form of the black woman, CONTINUE being you… KEEP complimenting these sisters with the TRUTH that’s of YOU!!!

@ KaiKai7, THANKS!!! LOL!!! Actually, I DO tell each of the women I have enjoyed that I don’t think I can do this right or that I feel I don’t that right… But, an astounding MAJORITY of my experiences dismiss my pre-sex and post-sex “confessions” by “correcting” me… LOL!!! I DON’T like the “sex blame game”!!! Like you, I put in so I can get out, and, if the woman didn’t enjoy, she should have simple TOLD ME what she wanted me to do OR what she wanted to do to me… I try to be as approachable communicately with a woman as possible because I prefer that I get to “know the woman before exploring her coochie” and because I go by the “you have not because you ask not” policy.

@ Nature111, “…Sex is so much better if it’s with someone that you actually really like and know.” RIGHT ON THE NAIL!!! LOL… Especially the “like” part… LOL!!!

@ odoggz, “…To your point though, ghetto broads do have that bomb ass puzzy…” I don’t know about that since I don’t usually mess with “ghetto broads”… LOL… In my experience, CRAZY women “…have that bomb ass puzzy..” LOL… THe best I’ve experienced yet gave me STRONG evidence that she needed counseling, holy oil, AND medication!!! LOL… The most sexually compatible sister I’ve experienced yet had some MAJOR emotional stability issues!!! LOL… Then again, a very close female friend of mine have said MANY times that I do tend to be a “crazy chick” magnet… LOL…

@ shybyme91, I’m SOOOOOOO very sorry for overlooking you… In that comment made in response to Paneiro1′s comment, “…I REALLY admire a woman who ISN’T afraid to put in work, too…” THANKS MORE THAN YOU KNOW for representing!!!

So the answer was, whomever is on top does most of the work…. See, I didn’t even need more than a sentense.

@Funseeker6 I feel you on “crazy women having the bomb ass coochie”!!!

Paneiro1, I agree with you…Positions aren’t really ‘made’ for women to ‘take over’. But it should still be as fair/equally satisfying as possible…

Stan_Vinyl, LOL…great visual!

funseeker, I can’t help it…you got H-O-T-T-I-E-S one here like Beautiful Sun1, Simply COmplex_87, Cynamyn Queen,Cortney, Clifemme23(don’t blush ;)), and countless others…..too bas they can’t come CLOSE to me ;)…….

To quote the song: I like to move it, move it….I just wanna-MOVE IT! ;)
But it’s what INSIDE that lady that REALLY makes her a H-O-T-T-I-E(I don’t mean the private area), warmth, humor, strength, has CREATIVE feelings and thoughts…..who want to be with a lady who’s SOUR???? Not meeee….

@ jazzwatch… It’s DEFINITELY understood that you can’t help it… Again, I COMMEND and SALUTE you on being so expressive. Again, in that regard, you and I are kindred spirits (in being expressive)… KEEP doing what you do, existing in your natural state… I feel you on the sisters on which you’ve complimented not being able to come CLOSE to you… I have been known to compliment sisters on forums as these, too. But the expression of my perspective comes at such an unusual phase, spin, and/or angle that I am quite sure none will accept such compliments, so I don’t expect any TO accept my compliments… YET, I compliment ANYHOW… Since all I can do to kick truth from my perspective…

I LIKE JADA FIRE P***Y SHE HOT TITTIES BAWHAHAHAHAHAH

Like Big Daddy Kane put it,” I git the job done! I work!”
I might let her ride for a little and git her sum but, I also like to suprpise her with a lil sumfin sumfin while when she least expects it. So hey! Who cares who is doing all of the work ( usually Me!) We are gonna have fun anyways. All I do know is that im usually sweating a whole lot more and need a refreshment and a cheeze sammich afterwards. LoL!

I could only speak for myself…I like to do a vast majority of the work. Mostly because I am a horny-mofo and I like to take control. LOL. Men out there beware…

@ TheRealSexyDiva… LOL… Thanks for the warning! LOL… As said in my first response, “…I REALLY admire a woman who ISN’T afraid to put in work, too…” THANKS for representing!!!

FunSeeker6, you have surprized the hell outta me (THANX!)… multiple responses, funny, articulate and the principle remains consistant.

Just damn.

Cali can we share that visual? Just the visual… no disrespect beautiful!

COME ON SON WOMEN R SO LAZY IN BED THATS WHY THEY R ALWAYS LAST TO BUST IF AT ALL. BUT THE REASON IS BECAUSE BLACK MEN HAVE SLIPPED BIG TIME ON THEIR SEX GAME. THEY PUT TO MUCH IMPORTANTS ON THEIR TONGUE ACTION. I HEAR WOMEN COMPLAININ BOUT THE 5MIN MAN, GUY THAT CANT GET IT UP OR KEEP IT UP, SOME DONT CHANGE POSITIONS AND MOST ALL CANT TALK THAT TALK. I GUT THEM OUT REAL TALK.

TheRealSexyDiva-BOUNNNNNGGGG!!!!!!

Funseeker6, If only I could find that ONE who not only communicate woth me but to DO IT, or be like that lady form “Coming To AMerica” who said “Whatever You Like”, and I would be SASSIFIED……..

It depends on if your lover is the aggressive or submissive kinda guy…. I had a guy that just loved for me to ride him 24/7 and I liked it..so great!!! It just depends on the guy!!! Ya know, Some guys have that “pride problem!!” Some guys feel like they must put in more work in bed than the woman….oh well…whatever works..cause 50/50 is how it should be….. Requirements: Decent size, great oral skills, smells good, nice looking, and we will work it out..period..lol!!

@TheRealSexyDiva
That’s the energy and mentality that is missing from the younger generation, like someone earlier posted that died out in the 90s (I can only speak for late 90s myself). These ladies aren’t trying to get their weaves wet from sweat (yours or hers), and many are so full of themselves now, that they don’t even want a dude to turn them out, because to get an orgasm makes them feel like they are WEAK/submissive and not in control. WTF is up with that? Women used to be such free spirits in bed, and now it’s a nation of rubber dolls in human skin.

@ Princess_NIKI, “..cause 50/50 is how it should be…..” AAAAAAAMEN!!! Thanks for representing!!! LOL!!! NOOOOOOO pride problems here… LOL!!! Unlike T.L.C., I’m with “ain’t no NEED to beg”… LOL!!! I think men and women can make “the sexual playground” far less fun for themselves by simply NOT communicating whatever “sexual games” (please refer to my first response) they wish to play other than the desire of “the deed” itself to their partner. I also think men and women can make “the sexual playground” far less fun for their partner by simply NOT being receptive to playing whatever “sexual games” their sexual partner wish to play other than the desire of “the deed” itself of their partner. Just be the kid in you out sexually!!!

@ jazzwatch, feel your loneliness…

Stan_Vinyl, Ummmm what you say brother? You’re in Colorado right?
:D

LOL… In my last reply, I had said “…just be the kid in you out sexually”… LOL… I had meant “…just LET the kid in you out sexually”… LOL!!! Sorry…

princess-NIKI, and you had top be so FAR AWAY- DAYYYYUIMMMM!

@ Odogg pornstars set unreasonable expectations because they get PAID to screw lol I mean c’mon yeah they are putting in a LOT of effort and work that’s their livelihood LMBO I don’t think too many women are going to be doing all that all the time with all the gusto unless that kind of money is involved. Jus sayin’ lol

@1blessd
Right, those women get PAID, so what you’re saying is women who are not porn stars shouldn’t be expected to feck with enthusiasm, and try to learn new skills, in bed, with the intentions of pleasing their men, BECAUSE THEY’RE NOT GETTING PAID TO DO IT?? JAJAJAJa uh huh Lazy broads, just like I said. It’s supposed to be a selfless act, sharing yourself to the maximum, because you love us men, but no… you’re not going to get some real puzzy skills because I haven’t paid you like a wh0re to do wh0re things. lol I’m not talking anal either, I don’t get down like that, I’m talk about squirting, working the PC muscles/kegels, riding up and down the jon, throwing it back… and holding your own big fuking legs up yourself.. man I’m tired of holding your damn big ass legs all the time. LOL yALL LAZY!!!!

Its like this… If a man can’t eat the koochie right, then he is not going to hit it right. So this makes us women put in more work by telling the dude to just lay back and enjoy. We then have to get on top and ride to make sure that we can get the dick to hit our spot and go longer to make up the lame tounge job he gave. If the man can eat, then you know he will be able to handle his business. So if you look at it. who gave the weaker head job already did the less work. Check out the head job. That will let you know how the rest is about to go…

Hey…you get what cha paid for? LMBBO!!!!!!!!!!
All jokes aside I can’t stop laughing at:
“…and holding your own big fuking legs up yourself.. man I’m tired of holding your damn big ass legs all the time. LOL yALL LAZY!!!!”
bahahahhahah THAT is too funny! hahahaha Dang, who can’t hold their legs up though??? I bet you’re not too tired I bet you’re still holding those big legs up getting some. hahahahah
Naw, I’m not saying try not to please your mate but you can’t be expecting pornstar quality. That’s just not realistic LOL

Well, I disagree with the coochie comment. Some men eat coochie so good because they’re not working with anything. LOL Sorry but it’s true. I’m not mad at it do what you can do and work with what you can work with. LOL

1blessd – I cant speak for those lazy azz mofo’s you be dealing with. I can only feel for you babe.

What about if We TAKE TURNS….like she want missinary, then I would do her in a woof woof style. followed by another position, that way one partner won’t get tired, and BOTH parties would be SASSIFIED…….

All positions men get tired except riding right? When does the woman get tired? lol

Men don’t get tired…..until we CLIMAXED, then it’s G-R-E-A-T!She might or might not…..hopefully she can take over until she does….anyway we BOTH be sassified…..

just give me a nice booty in a thong and the Vlassic will be SASSIFIED…..

O.K I don’t understand this article……………. lmao

Leticia, it’s a a TRICK debate on who does more in pleasing the mate….it’s INTERESTING conversation between the lucky in love/lust and the lonely ones…..

Oh I see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Thank you phew Gosh I dont know its about the same I guess – I mean it should be the same amount of pleasure!

It should be all about pleasure, although some make this a mountain out of a molehill….as long as BOTH parties is sassified…..

Yup…A more interesting topic would be “which is better top or bottom?” lol Rarely see any homosexual articles on bp. I thought this was the site of the devil hahahhaha.

No tooty frooty stuff….just HETEROSEXUAL-PLEASING-EACH-OTHER-MAKE-ME-SASSIFIED stuff……

ARE YOU SERIOUS, LOL ????

@1blessd
nah you ladies, today, don’t even hold your own damn legs up! You put the 100lbs of leg weight directly down on a brother’s chest and shoulders, and while that’s great if I’m trying to exercise while having sex, rather than enjoying the sex with the woman in front of me, it’s messing up MY movements and grove.

Jokes aside though, I’d like an answer. What are we asking you to do, that is done in porn, that is too much for you ladies to do? Tell me exactly, because porn chicks aren’t doing anything special, barring the extreme stuffings in the butt and crap I don’t care for. They’re having SEX, d1ck to puzzy, what’s so difficult for you women? See, the fact that you think it’s so extreme, what the porn women do, says you guys don’t do real work in bed. What are they doing that you can’t do? Sometimes they’re more flexible, which is a plus we’d like, ok they wear lipstick (don’t need to do), they wear heels (a plus but not needed)… so.. what do they do you guys feel you can’t, other than FUK BACK and get creative (which you should be doing)?

A woman’s argument that she can’t do like porn stars, is bullshiite. It’s a lazy excuse. If you’re saying you’re not flexible, you can’t pull off all of the moves because you’re too lazy to stretch, or just don’t want to, then just say that so we can resume calling you new wave chicks LAZY.

@1blessd
and you’re right about the eating thing, but women are the same. Most women fuk like Kim Kardashian in her sex tape, LAME. But you saw how she can suck a rod, it looked like that’s the only thing she can do well. For many dudes, that’s not good enough. I don’t think ladies mind too much since over 70% of them can’t orgazm from penetration alone, or just simply can’t orgasm.

Wow.. unless a man knows how to go at it like a porn star, he should not be comparing a woman to a pornstar. But in the same since, a pornstar has to perform for whoever to see, not just for that man. So she has to make it look like she knows what she is doing. She wants to get high ratings and burn her energy out in that one shot. Whats wrong with wanting to save more for after the resting period. Just give me 5 minutes to calm down and we can go at it again. Im not trying to impress the world with what I can do, just you. So i do not plan to bring it all to the table at once. Lets just stretch it out over the time

Damn, kesha-doggz just STAY complainin like a female! Got to be THEE most bitter male I have ever come across…

@CaliFemme23
I’ll come across ya jawline. :)

Califemme23, maybe he hasn’t came across a woman to SASSIFY him……

lol@comparing your woman, wife or girl friend that you’re suppose to love, respect, and cherish to a pornstar that has been pile driven by probably hundreds of men. That’s quality fellas…lol, BLAH!

@ coffee_male hey hey now I didn’t say that was my OVERWHELMING experience but I believe most of the women here will back me up on that. There’s always that guy that just doesn’t quite have it all going on but he knows how to eat. LOLLLLLL

@ odogg LOL I don’t know what else to say to you about the pornstar thing but…sooner or later you’ll get it. You should aleady have gotten it as you can see..it’s not going DOWN lol

@ odoggz, I feel you on WANTING a woman who is a “sexual free spirit” in bed. Porn is seen by a lot of men as FANTASY, since such men KNOW that a LOT of women will NOT and are NOT open to do what female pornstars do. What you’re saying a LOT of men would say but don’t since a LOT of women aren’t receptive to such men.

@ CaliFemme23, I find it interesting that a LOT of women cosigned behind “One Minute Man” by Missy Elliot and Ludacris because such was seen as being ‘representative” about the wants of such women. BUT, a man like odoggz can spit lyrics to “Feck like a Pornstar” which is his version of “”one Minute Man”, and such is seen as “b***hing” about the desires of a LOT of men. Please remember that there are a LOT of men who are NOT sexually satisfied just like there are a lot of women, and such women AND men have the right to be vocal about wanting to find a sexually satisfying partner.

@ jenlonte… LOL… Based on what you’ve said, no wonder a lot of the women in my experience were tired after feeding me… LOL… Thankfully, I’m INTO post-sex cuddling, holding, and talking while giving a woman her “five”… Interesting thing about kids–they don’t care about ANYTHING other that you participate and that you enjoy… Why can’t a man and a woman be that way in the bedroom, too? NO need for impression, NO ulterior motive of sex for manipulation, just plain, MUTUAL FUUUUUUUN..

@ Ms_Leondra, I feel you on a man cherishing his woman… BUT, all odoggz is saying is to “wow” your man every now and then by doing some of the things female pornstars do in the bedroom… Or, at the least, by being OPEN to doing some of the things… LOL… Personally, I’m NOT saying go for anal penetration, or a gangbang with a bunch of dudes or even a threesome with another woman, but LETTING a dude turn cunnilingus and/or some other things I won’t say into HUNNILINGUS… Something like that… SIMPLE… BUT, that’s just me…

lol@comparing your woman, wife or girl friend that you’re suppose to love, respect, and cherish to a pornstar that has been pile driven by probably hundreds of men. That’s quality fellas…lol, BLAH!

@jazzwatch
OH you know Califemme and her propaganda machine. You’re a mean man if you don’t agree with her opinions of the world, not actually an individual with his own opinions and beliefs. It’s not allowed, so you must hate women. Silly woman logic.

@1blessd
ohh no hun, don’t think I don’t get it like that often (because I’m not out he-wh0ring), I’m just saying more times than not, a good dude is going to get a chick who thinks “you know, he’s so nice, he won’t mind that my puzzy is lame, he’ll just be grateful for whatever kind of lame puzzy I throw at him”. You know, the same thing when girls think when they go to white guys. :) That’s a no go over this way! I don’t mind all women of all sizes and shades, but the puzzy MUST be good, or I can’t take you seriously. It’s like, come on, you’ve had over 25-40 years of life and you still don’t know how to fuk? How useless can someone be? I know you sympathize, by now. lol

odoggz, that’s the way the world is; a Black man MUST agree or he won’t get anywhere with anyone, espeially SOME sistas……been thaqt way since day i in this world, and unfortunately it ALWAYS will be that way…..

1blessed, no mouth action, but I just stick to the WORKING part with the Vlassic, and I’ll be SASSIFIED ;)……

we take turns

Soinds good to me, sexycristal30 ;)…..

well wait now Odogg lol Everyone has different beliefs, morals etc and is not out there honing there skills all the time! Certain things I wouldn’t do unless I was MARRIED to someone. Yes, I said MARRIED!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA Now I know you’re gonna have a fit over that! Some people are gonna need some re-up time to get their skills together LOL

I don’t even need ma woman to do anything. Just lay there and I’mma do all the work. All you gotta do is scream, stutter and… moan.

http://www.reverbnation.com/dincrediblekeli

@kellyrthm- you sound like the type that will not let the woman ride to gain some kind of control…I wondered if your woman get to just lay there while you pay all the bills….

kellyrythm – My kinda man hehe

Through my life, it’s always been me clocking in.

What was that love?

Such carnal stuff-WOWWWWWWW……..

Dear Alex,

If nobody is watching you and your wife have sex with a timer and heart rate monitor, how the sam hell you expect us to know who’s putting in the most work??

If you want your wife to do more how about you suggest to her exactly what it is you want her to do instead trying to make it a contest. From my experience two ppl who love each other will bring the absolute freak out of each other. With that being said maybe you should do more “mental seduction”

To me if a woman is just laying there she isn’t really into it. That says alot about you.

That’s my 2cents worth,

2ND OPINION

@ Lovevon… There are many women who tell others their man/partner isn’t “doing the job”, and there are many men who tell others their woman/partner isn’t putting in work. That’;s how people who overhear (and, in certain cases, have no choice by to overhear) know who’s NOT putting in the most work… Unfortunately, a LOT of those same women (and especially men) meet resistance when they DO each tell their partner what they want. I agree that sex should NOT be a contest. (STILL, there IS a thing called fairness, even in the bedroom.) From my experience, two people who love each other can be EACH freaks but NOT know how to maximize the freak in each other. In other experiences of mine, one may be a bit MORE freaky than the other yet STILL love each other. Does “mental seduction” apply only to the man doing such to the woman? “…To me, if a woman is just laying there she isn’t really into it…” Not necessarily true… I’ve been in encounteres where the more the woman showed she enjoyed, the LESS she did. (Of course, I could care less when I’m in the mood to serve–I just wanted such women to ENJOOOOOOOY…)

I feel that COMMUNICATOION is the key in pleasing esach other…otherwise it will not work….there’s nothing like doing what SHE likes then she reciprocate, with that old song playing the words “Work that body, work that body…make sure you don’t hurt nobody” ;)………

@1blessd
oh really? What “certain” things are we talking here (that you won’t do until marriage”? You mean cook some eggs or boil water for tea? You’re supposed to show your man you love him unconditionally, PRIOR to marriage, if you are to marry for love. This is not a video game where you get special powers if you get to the next level. lol Ok, so then you’re saying a man should also hold off on giving his woman all of himself, and being the best he can be, until AFTER he marries her?

There’s only 1 woman who ever did more work than me in bed. It was freshman year in college. She was this Hebrew volleyball player, THICK!!!! DAMN SHE WAS FUUUUNNN!!!

well from my personal experience it all depends on which party is need or requesting service. Therefore the person that’s in need, wants the treatment or business. And betcha 9 x’s out of 10 it’s the man needed it. So, I would say that the woman will do all the work for her man to keep him happy, and coming back for more. @};-

devoread, sounds good to meeee…..wish I could find that HOTTIE to do that to me, then I’ll be SASSIFIED…..

It’s not a contest, sometimes it’s me sometimes it’s him, as long as the outcome is pleaser it’s all good

Who cares at least you getting some from your W I F E dig it lol…

BORINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGLOL NEXT BP DUM CRAP!

The comment section is messed up Urbandaily please fix it.

I GOT TO WORK THE MIDDLE, THAT’S THE OBJECT OF SEX
PLEASING YOUR WOMANS WET WET WITH HARD MOTHERF**KING WORK!
PUT HER IN THE FROG AND DROP HER TO THE DOGG!LOL

Sept. 27, 2010, ….6:30(am). …
I think that at times, I put in the most work, when I’m in the sheets, because it takes time to carressed the mind, – I mean It could take weeks. …Each moment is memorable, the mental seduction is proteine, – It depends on the player position, …and how hard you fiend. ….If my companion is on top or on the bottom of me,..I have to bring her to her pinnacle point, – in exctasy. … Slow motion is the way, If youi’re stimulating the mind,…but If I only possess 3 inches, – shou;d I get behind? …. So I’m too big, If there is a such thing, ..I have slowly kiss her hidden spots, and make her body sing. …I like having the light on, I love eye to eye contact, I love watching my companions eyes roll in the back of her head, and give myself points for that….All of this take time,..starting with stimulating the mind, and the only time I want to remind her of – is ” this time.”….I like to carress her vthoughts, till we start thinking the same,..then calm her nerves and massage her brain. …I could then look in her eyes – and know just how she feel, because I’ve just revealed the pill that healed all of her pains, – because her multiple orgasms were real…..Therefore, ..there spots in a womans body that all men know not,..It takes time – to search out these hidden spots. …So who’s do the work, – while you’re laying in ex-ctasy,..Here’s a hint, ….I’m presently hitting keys.(lol).
As I continue to type, I continue to sink,..deep into your mental – in hope to make you think. ….While you’re all relax and sinking in this note,…I’m cotinuously working hard to per-fect, ….this classy response that I’ve wrote.
You see,..that’s the way it always is,…
while you’re relax and smiling, ….
I’m putting in over time.
Fiend_4_success / prophetjlp@yahoo.com

It’s equal because if you’re both good at what you do and you’re attracted to or love each other. it’s on and neither is even thinking about who did the most work because it’s fun, not work. When passion is present…it’s a fun filled fight!! bring it!!

it really goes both ways because what one person wont do the next person will and thats for men and women alike so i handles my bi in the bedroom everytime like i wont never be able to taste that sweet necter of a woman again, I have to make sure she remembers every lick,stroke and touch when we doin us feel me

Plain and simple for this islander. 50/50…can’t go wrong. Don’t mind doing whatever it takes to satisfy my woman as long as she is willing to return the favor. As far as “work” goes, it’s not a competition for me. I am very communicative and don’t have beat it like a horse in the Kentucky Derby. That is the most sacred part of her body and in my realm, she gets it treated royally along with the rest of her. Sex is an art and if most fellas can work their paint brush, I’m sure the woman can feel the magic of the painting through every stroke. 90% of the time, a woman doesn’t need a man to “beat” it up. We think we doing something but in actual reality, she really is in pain….lol. In the bedroom, there is nothing to prove for me. I simply aim to please, no matter how many “rounds” it may take. S

It all depends on the couple

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islander is so right

How interested that something that is supposed to be pleasurable is referred to as “work.”

My opinion Is If you call It work your doing It all wrong It’s more about pleasing your (spouse-mate-partner) which should come auto if there is any feelings involve cause your happiness & full fillment should come from pleasing each other….

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How much effort you put into the sex act is always dependent upon how “HORNY” you are at the moment. There are many factors that determine how good you are in bed (eg. p***s size, flexibility and physical conditioning) Frankly, your “feelings” about your Sex partner is what truly distinguishes the sexual encounter. To be more specific: “There is a big difference between screwing and Making Love.” Good lovemaking is actually dependent upon your “ATTITUDE” and the “ATMOSPHERE” you create in the room. Frankly, some females can just lay there and “ROCK YOUR WORLD”, and some females are “SUPER FREAKY.” Considering how different we are mentally and physically, to become proficient at “Sexual intercourse” certainly requires “ON THE JOB TRAINING.” So sincere, Michael Sydney Perkins

Both should put in some “work”. I don’t know about other people, but I don’t see any Jamaican man fuking with a log. Put some motion in there. Who wants a log. Sex is more than just getting on your back & opening your legs.

Work is something that I get paid to do. I don’t get paid to be in bed so I don’t consider it “work”. I loved Sweet_Pi1958′s response to this topic so I’m co-signing with him on this one!

I know that me personally i am a dominant dude in the bedroom,so i always do most of the work.i must say though i know a lot of women,who complain.That their dudes are lazy and don’t want to do anything in the bedroom or when they do it’s over quickly.This one girl,she said her dude went in for 12 minutes and had to leave work early and come home to rest/sleep because he was so winded(true story).So,for you guys that are reading this that it pertains to you need to step your beating game up.That’s not a good look.Making us look bad.It should’t even be a question.Us as men,should command that respect to where we spank the mess out of it,yank some hair here and there,little dirty talk you get the picture?Take a peek at http://www.xmas-ideas.net

Personally, I enjoy all aspects of sex. From daydreaming about what’s to come,talking about it on the phone,writing a letter or sending a flirty text, on down to the actual. Im an “active member” from beginning to end. I love foreplay, I think its so essential.I’ve had discussions with male friends over the years who have expressed how bad a woman can be in bed. I was shocked. I don’t think its not one position out there where we as women can’t give our “input”. I couldn’t ever just lie still and receive…unless we were role-playing and I was supposed to be DEAD!

This was a discussion with your WIFE??? So when’s the divorce?

Why is this even a topic for debate? This is part of what is wrong with the black community…Casually displaying something so profoundly intimate as his sex life with his wife as nothing more than a casual topic for serious debate…Ridiculous. There is such a thing as TMI…and this topic is it. His wife must be so proud (NOT) to know that he is discussing their sex life on line with thousands of strangers…maybe next his silly ass can write a follow up on their sexual positions, and describe her private parts too, and ask for advice on what sexual positions they should try next time…What an ASS! There’s always a black buffoon in the room, ready and waiting to throw out a silly ass sex topic for a cheap thrill…he sounds way too old to be so obsessed with sex, but Viagra and porn has turned many a man into hyper-sexual obsessed clowns! Damn shame…wonder how many youth have read this dumb s**t. I can see it filtering down to the masses now…more garbage to help keep our youth tuned in to chasing sexual thrills, instead of promoting dignity, education, & learning some skills…that writer should be ashamed of his dick obssessed ass…but Im sure that the little head was talking when he posted that ignorant s**t. Anybody who wants to discuss their sex life with their wife on line with strangers doesnt need to be married, he needs to be watched closely by doctors in white coats, like a lab rat…cause he just took all the intimacy out of their bedroom, and turned their sex life into a silly damn joke. Will he be installing a webcam in the bedroom next, to get instant advice on who’s working harder in the bedroom from Net strangers? Wouldnt be surprised…men are getting more divorced from the reality of what true Intimacy in a relationship is…is there no personal dignity in this man? He should be fired by his boss and by his wife, for pandering and putting his bedroom activities out there like that…Yuck! This is why I watch my teenaged daughter like a hawk, cause of the watered down version of men who think that they are “a good man”…Hmmm, really? Cause it’s clear that this jerk believes that he is a “good man” and a “good husband”…and equally clear that he is CLUELESS as to what a good husband and good man would and would NOT do…What man who truly respects his woman and values her as more than a sex object would put intimate details of their sex life on the Net like that? Good God…its scary how badly our country has become stagnated by obsessions with sex/self/wealth/drugs/alcohol/bad credit/fantasy imagery/&porn…Now even the sanctity of the marital bedroom is up for grabs and open for display, as this guy completely violated and trivialized his married life down to a debate about who does what in bed and for how long…The real question that comes to mind here is, Is he a secret pervert? Damn sure sounds like one…

And look how many men happily responded with long, detailed answers…they dont think that hard about how to improve their educational level, their professional status, their personal character, morals, ethics, respect for their women, communities, families, children, priorities or behavioral patterns…but can meditate all day long on how many women they have run through, and which one did what in bed and for how long and whatnot…AND YOU WONDER WHY WOMEN OF COLOR ARE FED UP WITH YOUR DICK OBSESSED ASSES? With nothing else more meaningful or of substance to bring to the table than your opinion on getting more sex…(LOL)

Also noticed that none of the respondants said anything about being married, either…just hit it, enjoy it, quit it. move on to the next one and talk about getting more of it, eh, fellas? Seriously yuck-yuck…Who would ever take any man like that seriously…? LMAO…and weeping for what the next generation of young women will have to face when trying to pick a mate…

crystalclearNY

you are definitely immature. to quote “AND YOU WONDER WHY WOMEN OF COLOR ARE FED UP WITH YOUR DICK OBSESSED ASSES?”

um most of my white male clients sleep with 20 to 80 women a YEAR and half of them are engaged to an idiot… like YOU

now back to the adult conversation…

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To Mungu1…Hmmm…Somebody sounds upset! Too bad…Good luck with all that…If you’re hoping to upset me with your childish, moronic, ignorant insults you’ll definitely need LOTS of luck…and to get back in school and brush up on your grammar, intelligence, and critical thinking skills, too…LOL

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