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Dear Ask The Black Man,

Why do men say they want a strong woman but when they get one don’t want her? I find that absolutely baffling.

-Nique

The Black Man:

Hi Nique,

It goes back to the old saying, “Be careful for what you ask for because you just may get it”

Some people want things and either these three things happen:
1) They are happy with what they received.
2) They realized what they actually asked for is not what they want upon delivery.
3) They are not ready for what they asked for.

The same happens for when women ask for their ideal man. He can be standing right in front of them and they freak out because it is too good to be true and they reject him.

That is my 99 Cents Worth.

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